If you think your spouse is cheating on you, this can be very stressful. Fortunately, there are many things you can do to help you know for sure. You can then decide if the two of you can work things out and stay together.

Hire a Private Investigator

If it in your budget, you should hire a private investigation service. This is by far the quickest way to find out if your spouse is having an affair. You can find private investigation firms in your area. Look online or look for ads in your local newspaper. Visit a few of them that you find to help you determine what they charge. You should also ask how much experience they have and how much experience they have in the area that you need them for.

The private investigator will ask you for a recent picture of your spouse. They will then ask you for your spouse's schedule, such as what time they leave for work each day and what time they get home. They will also ask you if you know what time your spouse goes to lunch each day. The private investigator will then develop a plan to help them determine if your spouse is, in fact, cheating. The investigator will use a very professional camera that allows them to take photos from a far distance.

Changes in Your Spouse

You will also likely notice a lot of change in your spouse. For example, they may start dressing differently or changing their hairstyle. You also may notice your spouse spending much more time on their smartphone, their tablet, or their computer. If so, they could be texting with the person they are having an affair with or spending a lot of time on this person's social media pages.

One of the main things you will notice is your spouse changing the way they interact with you. For example, they may distance themselves from you or they may start arguments very easily. Your spouse may also change their schedule, such as leaving earlier or getting home much later than normal. Your spouse may also have much less interest in your sexual relationship.

The best thing to do is to talk to your spouse about how you are feeling. You never know if you are completely wrong and there are other problems your spouse is having, such as high stress at work. You can then start to work things out.